What are some things you do for yourself that allow you to be the best version of yourself for your husband?

Despite being told that money doesn't buy happiness... there is something about making small regular purchases that helps me to feel good about myself and puts me in a feel-good place emotionally. This positive emotion brings a fresh energy into the home which has a beneficial impact on everyone. I'm not encouraging women to blow money constantly as we do need to work on an inner happiness that is not contingent on materialistic purchases. However, there is what to be said about striking the right balance between cultivating a deep inner happiness on one hand and enjoying the short term happiness a new object in our life brings.